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Frugal Vs Cheap: The Kiddie Edition

Posted June 23rd, 2009 by Carolyn Joy Villanueva · 1 comment
Tagged bargains, budgeting, saving money, shopping, tips

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We’ve all heard both sides to the argument on being frugal vs being cheap.

While both can lead to cost savings for a household, the former is more about getting quality products at lower costs, while the latter is getting something simply because it has the lowest price (or comes free!) without much thought to its make, functionality, and how it could affect other people (not leaving a tip in a restaurant for instance IS cheap).

Adults can live without those unnecessary luxuries or make those small “sacrifices” in the name of frugal living and being eco-friendly. But just how much of our frugality should be applied to buying for our kids without crossing the line to cheapness? Here are some great ideas for frugal moms, which can bring in huge savings for you without sacrificing your young ones’ comfort and little pleasures.

Having at least three children or more will definitely make a dent on your clothing budget. When shopping for kids’ clothes, try the following:

  • Buy at consignment stores. Babies especially outgrow their clothes in a matter of weeks so it wouldn’t really make much sense if you splurge on new clothes for the little tykes. Try your hand at second-hand shopping. Many consignment stores carry great selections of babies’ and toddlers’ clothing for under $1. Garage sales can also be a goldmine of children’s clothes.
  • Shop when it’s off season or be first in line during inventory or year-end sales. It may feel a bit strange looking for shirts, shorts and mini- dresses when it’s chilly outside but it really doesn’t matter considering you’re getting as much as 30 to 50 percent off in discounts.
  • Decorate some of your kids’ clothes yourself. If you want holiday-themed clothes for your kids but don’t care for the cost of buying from the mall, why not get your creative juices flowing and do the decorating yourself? Solid-colored shirts and sweaters will definitely get the Halloween makeover with a bright orange pumpkin painted across the front. Try browsing the internet and you’ll find hundreds of ideas for artistic shirts and costumes too.
  • A child’s birthday that’s just around the corner can be a stressful time for parents because birthdays are typically associated with costly parties. As frugal moms know, birthday treats don’t necessarily have to be bank-breaking. A few suggestions:

  • Have them play-all-you-can. Take the kids to McDonalds for an early birthday breakfast and the kids will be sure to have the playhouse all to themselves.
  • Surprise him with that Spidey cake. You may skip the big party and just have family and a few friends over, but getting him a cake themed in his favorite character should be a big hit with the celebrant. Balloons and a lot of ice cream wouldn’t hurt either.
  • Don’t forget: birthdays are all about toys. Who cares about the mascots and magicians if she’s got Barbie for company? Sure she may need a new pair of shoes or would definitely enjoy that amazing book of children’s stories you found online but nothing can elicit bigger smiles from your young children on their special day than when they unwrap their gifts and find toys.
  • Now, I’d like to think that the ideas mentioned above were certainly within the bounds of frugality. So what for me would be ‘cheap mode’ for kids? Off the top of my head, just two:

  • Used car-seats. A few dollars more should never be an issue when it comes to your children’s safety.
  • Used children’s shoes. This would obviously depend on the condition of the second hand shoes. That said, be sure to check out the quality of used shoes first before buying. If the insoles show some wear and even just a hint of a foot imprint, they shouldn’t be handed down at all. More importantly, the shoes should be a good fit to your child’s feet.
  • As with everything else, it’s all a matter of perspective. What may be frugal for some, could be thought of as cheap by others.

    As a parent, do you have these “frugal vs cheap” debates within yourself?


    Grocery Store Discount Cards

    Posted June 11th, 2009 by Dave Robinson · Comment on this
    Tagged bargains, coupons, groceries, technology

    Quick question; how many grocery store discount cards do you have in your wallet?  Or on your key-ring if you’re like me and carry them there?

    I have three on my key-ring: also a drugstore cared and two bookstore cards.  We’ve joined other discount clubs, too; these are just the ones I keep with me all the time. In case you haven’t guessed, I believe in membership discounts.

    As we all know, membership discounts come in two kinds:  free and paid.  The biggest difference (apart from the annual fee) is that companies that offer paid memberships may not sell your data, and those that offer free memberships almost certainly will.

    So, before you sign up for one of these cards that’s one thing may want to consider.  Do you mind having your data out there?  It doesn’t bother me, but there are some people who refuse those cards on principle, just because of the data collection.  One thing you can look into is seeing if they will issue an anonymous card without you revealing personal information.  Not all stores will do this, but I was able to sign up for a card at Albertson’s in Washington State without providing any personal information.  Wegmans in Virginia went to the other extreme and wanted a drivers license number.

    Personally I would recommend signing up for every free discount card you can find.  It only takes a few minutes and the savings more than outweigh the effort.  My most recent receipt from one of our local supermarkets (not where we do most of our shopping) shows that we’ve saved over $220 this year at that store alone.

    They also offer gas discounts:  every hundred dollars you spend there earns you a $0.10 per gallon discount on fuel at their gas pump.   You earn points over a period of six weeks or so, and can redeem them any time up to about two weeks after that period ends.  It works for us.

    Paid cards are a different story:  Any time you think about signing up for one of those you should sit down and to the math first.  For example, a Books-A-Million membership costs $20 a year and gives 10% off everything in the store (and an additional 10% off the already discounted price on their website.)  If you spend less than $200 a year on books it’s probably not worth it.  I belong to a group that meets there every Wednesday morning, so I’ve probably saved the price of the membership on coffee alone.

    As a reward for anyone who has read all the way to the bottom of the this post I’m posting a couple of links for Borders members.

    First this coupon offers 25% off your entire purchase.

    Second this one offers $100 off a Sony Reader.

    Both coupons expire on June 14th and the Reader coupon is only valid in stores, not on the website.  I used the Reader one Tuesday night, so stay tuned for a post on saving money with eBooks.  There’s also a 20% off your entire purchase coupon floating around out there, but I didn’t see the point of posting it when there’s a better one.

    Happy Frugaling.


    Being Smart and Looking Rich

    Posted May 21st, 2009 by Dave Robinson · 2 comments
    Tagged bargains, parenting, shopping, tips

    I once had a roommate who refused to shop at discount and second-hand stores because she didn’t want people to think she was poor.

    She would rather be seen as rich than smart.

    The sad thing is that her attitude is all too common these days:  with teenagers in the house I see it all the time.  They want the newest and most fashionable everything - even if it’s overpriced crap - just because it is in style.

    There isn’t much you can do about a teenager’s sense of style,  some of them haven’t figured out how to wear pants yet; but it’s always possible to try and instill good habits when it comes to spending money.

    This is even more important when they’re spending my money.

    Today’s topic is bargains, discounts, and second-hand stores:  and why the emphasis on having people think she was rich only made my roommate look foolish. Read the rest of this entry »


    Hi, my name is Dave and I’m frugal

    Posted May 7th, 2009 by Dave Robinson · Comment on this
    Tagged bargains, budgeting, planning, saving money

    As the title of the post says, my name is Dave and I’ll be blogging for you today.

    I’m a stay-at-home Dad and freelance writer.  My partner works outside the home and I stay home and look after the kids; her two teens and our daughter who will be seven next week.  It’s probably no surprise that no matter how much money comes in, somebody finds a need for it so we always try to make the most of our money.

    That’s especially true when one of the teens had to to take his girlfriend to her junior prom last weekend and it’s his senior prom this weekend.

    So today I want to talk about some things we did right, and some things we might have done better:

    Before I go any further I should mention two factors that are very important to me:  value for money and absolute price.  While getting value for your money is always important, it’s the absolute price that always sets the final boundary.   It’s not very frugal to save money on one thing but then have to spend extra money on something else later because you blew your budget today.

    Anyway - after the cut - on to the prom. Read the rest of this entry »


    Sweet Black Friday sales online

    Posted November 22nd, 2007 by Sarah · 1 comment
    Tagged bargains, holidays, shopping

    In addition to Amazon’s Black Friday sale, I’ve also come across a few more noteworthy online sales. (I’ll update this post as I come across other exceptional deals.)

    If you need a new desktop computer, you’ll have a hard time beating this deal from PC Direct; I’m not going to list all the specs here, but in my semi-professional tech opinion, this is the best computer deal I’ve seen in a long time.

    Knitters looking to round out their needle collections might want to consider Lion Brand’s great deal on a circular needle set. Less than $20 (plus shipping, I imagine) gets you seven 29″ circular needles from size 10.5 to 35!


    Avoid the day-after-Thanksgiving crowds

    Posted November 19th, 2007 by Sarah · 1 comment
    Tagged bargains, holidays, shopping

    Here in the U.S., the day after Thanksgiving has picked up the moniker of “Black Friday.” Seems a little dismal, but it’s almost a holiday of its own—part frugality, part insanity. It’s a “competitive shopping” extravaganza of too many people clamoring for too little inventory.

    Personally, I’m not a big Black Friday shopper. I’m usually too lazy to go buy a paper, find the good sales, and drive all over town. That said, I’ve gotten some great deals in the past, and if you have a list of Christmas present recipients but don’t know what you’re getting them, it can be a good strategy for frugal shopping.

    This year, though, I was amused (and secretly delighted) to see that Amazon is doing a big Black Friday sale of their own. No doubt they’ve done this before and I just didn’t notice, but for a homebody like me, it’s good news.

    They don’t have details on what’s going to be available, but they promise hourly deals from 6am to 6pm PST. It’s also worth checking out their creative “Customers Vote” deals—it’s the only place I’ve seen a chance of getting a Wii for $79. :)


    Shopping smart at yard sales

    Posted September 26th, 2007 by Sarah · 2 comments
    Tagged bargains, shopping

    Have you ever gone to a yard sale? There are plenty of great things that people don’t want or need that could be perfectly useful to you. Here are some yard sale shopping tips.

    Lulu la Brocante.

    Photo by abac077

    First, you will want to have a plan. Make a list of things that you may be looking for a bargain price on. You might be looking for a gift for someone, furniture, toys, books, or clothes and all of those things can be found at many yards sales. You might be surprised at what you find. Find out where and when sales are happening, and show up early for first pickings.

    When you get there, keep your eye open for the things that you listed. Also, look for things that you could resell for a profit.

    The great thing about yard sales is negotiating. Use your negotiation skills to talk the seller down to a lower price. If they really want to get rid of the items, or there are damages or defects, you can use that as leverage to come away with a better bargain.

    Not everyone offers a good discount at the sale. If you think you can find the item new for the same price or lower, the price is just too high. Try to negotiate if it is just an item or two that you really want. If everything seems a little over priced, try another sale.


    Buying in bulk

    Posted August 7th, 2007 by Sarah · 2 comments
    Tagged bargains, saving money, shopping
    Shopping trip

    Photo by Aditya Bhelke

    One great way to save money is to buy things in bulk. For example, we all need toilet tissue, right? It may cost you a great deal less to buy a twelve roll pack than a four pack in the long run. The price per roll is typically less for a large pack.

    If you pay close attention to the size to price ratio, you can get more of your money’s worth by getting larger packages. Larger jars of mayonnaise are usually cheaper per ounce than smaller jars. Paper towel, ketchup, peanut butter, rice, and just about everything else will cost you less in the long run if you grab the bigger bag, box, or container. If you know that you will use it all without it spoiling, buy the big one.

    You can find larger packages that are cheaper per ounce, bottle, or roll at most supermarkets. If you are anywhere near a Costco, or BJs, you can get a membership there. These stores specialize in bulk packaging, and will save you tons of money on just about everything you buy. Wholesale club memberships sometimes have a small fee, but the money that you save is much more than the cost.


    Today only: cheap web hosting

    Posted October 3rd, 2006 by Sarah · Comment on this
    Tagged bargains, coupons

    If you’re considering starting a blog of your own, or a website, or anything where you need web hosting, you should check out Dreamhost’s excellent offer. Until midnight Pacific time, you can get $99 off of their already-ridiculously-cheap prices when you pay for one or two years.

    Seriously, if you’re thinking of a blog, go for it. You’ll get your domain name for free, and you really can’t beat the deal. They also have a one-click tool to set your blog up, and it works great. This blog is hosted on Dreamhost, too, so you’ll get to join the cool kids! (HA HA HA…)


    A deal on a Blockbuster movie rental

    Posted September 13th, 2006 by Sarah · 1 comment
    Tagged bargains, coupons, entertainment, saving money

    Orville Redenbacher is bribing you to sign up for their new newsletter: sign up and get a “rent one, get one free” coupon at Blockbuster. Not that great of a deal, but handy if you’re already in the habit of renting movies at Blockbuster.

    Do note, though, that this is very ambiguously labeled “And for a limited time, if you are one of the first to sign up…” If you try it and don’t get your coupon at the end of the process, leave a comment here and I’ll update the post.


    Key Bank’s free iPod nano promotion and other Mac acquisitions

    Posted September 1st, 2006 by Sarah · 1 comment
    Tagged bargains, saving money, shopping

    It is an Apple-crazy week in my house. I’ve been thinking about getting a Mac mini for some time now (for my business), and the time came quite clearly when Daniel’s motherboard died last week. It’s old enough that it can’t be cheaply replaced, so we’re going to do a bit of a computer shuffle, with the Mac being the key.

    I looked on Apple’s site to see what retail was on the model I wanted, and then went comparison shopping. I checked Apple’s refurbs, Amazon, and other various sites. In the end, I got a great deal on eBay (have I mentioned that I love eBay?): a couple hundred dollars less than retail.

    Wednesday, my sister Leanna and I went into KeyBank to sign up for checking accounts and take advantage of their awesome free iPod nano promotion. I already have a great MP3 player, but I think an iPod will make a great Christmas present. Leanna’s boyfriend also signed up last weekend, so we used him as a referral, making him a nice $50 and getting $25 each just for mentioning that.

    I also have to say, the employees at this particular KeyBank location were amazing. I’m probably going to write a post in my (yet to be unveiled) business blog about their fantastic customer service. Based on this one visit, I have a much better opinion of Key than I did last week.

    Anyway, the deal with the iPod offer is that you sign up for checking and also for either direct deposit (not an option for me, being self-employed) or a credit card. Sixty days later, you’ve got yourself an iPod. The account guy helping us said that this promotion has been stunningly successful; they hit the expected number of new accounts weeks earlier than they had planned, and Key extended the promotion for a week. Bring on the iPods!

    And the most recent Mac development: Leanna is currently training to do some work (as an independent contractor) for me. Coding, template building, that kind of thing. Her computer is now a little over five years old (and it wasn’t cutting edge when it was new), so she’s been looking for a laptop to replace it. She ended up deciding on a Mac, too, both because it will make it easier to work with me, and because of all the fabulous things we keep hearing about them from other web developers.

    We looked locally (she was hoping to get rewards points on her low-limit credit card by splitting the transaction) but the deals just weren’t there. eBay wasn’t really top-notch, either—one guy was offering a great deal but his feedback had all sorts of comments about really slow shipping (like 2 months slow!), so we opted for Amazon. They’re offering a nice $100 rebate, which took the price down to both her budget, and the price of comparable Windows machines.

    We signed up for the Amazon Prime trial, and Leanna opted to pay the $4 to get the computer delivered Next Day Air. It will arrive this afternoon and she’ll spend much of the holiday weekend working on her coding skills.

    All in all this week, we’ve saved a grand total of $770 off retail on Apple products. Not bad for a little research!


    Get the maximum discount by combining rewards programs with sales

    Posted August 10th, 2006 by Sarah · 4 comments
    Tagged bargains, coupons, internet, saving money, shopping, tips

    A month or two ago, I received an email from someone who had seen this blog and wanted to tell me about his own frugal site. I get a few of these emails each month, but this one hit me at a crazy busy time, and I didn’t take the time to look at his site until now.

    Because the gentleman was kind enough to include a summary of what the site does, I’m copying it here:

    DealMine.com is aggregating member discounts and rewards from loyalty programs, credit cards, associations (AAA, AARP), unions, etc and matching them up to comparison shopping technology. The idea from a consumer perspective is that as popular as comparison shopping is, the information they provide is limited to price, tax and shipping info and that does not provide all the information and consumer needs to make a purchasing decision. For example, the average consumer has nine credit cards, belongs to four rewards programs and at least one association or club (sources: FairIssac and Colloquy) all of which have member benefits and have not been aggregated anywhere before in a way that makes them easy to use. We help consumers discover deals they didnt even know they had available like 10% off at Target.com with AAA or $15 off at Bluefly with Visa cards…

    The site features two types of searches. The first is into the directory to compare discounts or rewards like this one for car rentals currently featuring over 100 deals: http://www.dealmine.com/deal-directory/Travel-discounts/Car-Rentals/49

    The other search on the site is actual comparison shopping where prices at various stores are matched up to affinity/membership discounts and benefits. See below for an example of a “Compare Prices” search on jeans: http://www.dealmine.com/compare-prices.php?s=jeans

    The site currently features discounts and rewards from 29 member programs and is growing quickly.

    I was impressed at the concept when I read the email. It seems like a tool that could help a certain market segment (namely, us, “the cheapskates”). And goodness knows I’m part of way too many rewards programs, and don’t keep track of them nearly as well as I ought to.

    I tried out the site to see what I thought. My impression: a touch clunky, but extremely useful. The registration process includes a spot where you tell DealMine what rewards programs you’re part of, and then future searches are customized to your actual memberships.

    I was impressed at the options for filtering and sorting on a product search. For instance, I did the example jeans search, and found loads of bargains on pants. But then I saw I could filter to show only five-pocket jeans, or bootcuts, and limit it to deals under $20. That’s handy.

    I went on to find a lovely pair of bootcut jeans at Sierra Trading post that were under $20 shipped, and would net me 4 hotel rewards points per dollar. I didn’t buy them (that’s still a lot of money for jeans, in my opinion, and I don’t need any right now), but it was a good exercise in seeing the potential benefit of this site.

    My biggest concern? Whether I will remember to use the site. I’d like to see them offer a search plugin to the Search Bar in . That would make it much more likely that I’ll return when it’s time to buy.


    A new service makes it easier to find a bargain on a used car

    Posted June 28th, 2006 by Sarah · 4 comments
    Tagged bargains, cars, internet, shopping

    Yesterday morning, I was reading the Excess Voice newsletter by Nick Usborne. The topic of the newsletter is copywriting, of all things, but it started me down a path that had some surprising results.

    In this issue, Nick was talking about the importance of being aware of new technologies and services as they relate to your business. His point was that, whether or not you choose to employ these new technologies, your competitors might, and you should be making an informed decision. To illustrate his point, he rattled off a number of interesting new technologies and examples.

    One of these was MotorMapUSA.com. Nick was using it as an example of a “mashup”—two services sort of “glued” together to make a more useful service. In the case of MotorMapUSA.com, they have combined the features of eBay Motors (buying and selling vehicles via online auction) with those of Google Maps (locating things by proximity). By combining these sites, you end up with a map of vehicles listed on eBay that are near your location.

    In my opinion, this is huge.

    While most people haven’t used eBay yet for vehicle purchases, the numbers are starting to pick up. I think it’s going to become more and more common to shop for cars through a number of online tools, especially as these mashups make it easier. The problem with car shopping on eBay, though, is that there are tons of great deals—but most of them aren’t convenient. It’s great to find a vehicle for $1000+ below Blue Book value, but if it’s halfway across the country, then you’re going to have to figure out how to transport it, adding expense and hassle. Granted, sometimes the bargain is worth it, but most of us won’t go to the effort.

    By showing only local vehicles for sale, MotorMapUSA.com eliminates that inconvenience. Since eBay Motors is still a relatively little-used shopping tool, and most people are only interested in local vehicles, you have a great advantage with the auction format: less competition. You also have the advantage of a limited time frame (rather than a seller who is glad to wait around for a higher offer). Additionally, the seller might have a different perspective than the average private party seller.

    I’ll tell you what happened yesterday as an example. We’ve been saving up for a new vehicle. We have one that is seemingly always on its last legs, so we wanted to be prepared if it suddenly died. We also need a different type of vehicle—last summer we had our properly-installed bike roof rack fly off our car, complete with two spendy bikes. So we wanted either a little pickup truck or a minivan that can carry our bikes securely (we bike a whole lot).

    While I was checking out MotorMapUSA.com (just because it sounded like a great idea), I saw a few trucks listed. I looked at them out of curiosity, and found one that was particularly interesting. It had all of the features we wanted (4-wheel drive, a small extended cab to haul passengers in a pinch, not overly large) and the current high bid was significantly below what we had been considering paying for a vehicle. It also only had four hours left on the auction.

    I thought, “What the heck?” and called Daniel. The listing had many pictures, so we both looked them over. We could see from the listing that the seller was a local new car dealership. Daniel called them to ask a few questions, and it turned out that it was a trade-in on a new Volvo, and the dealer mostly just wanted to move it. I’m guessing that for a new car dealership, it is much easier and less resource-intensive to sell the trade-ins on eBay than to run a used car lot or farm it out to other dealers.

    Since the truck was just a few miles away, I went to look at it. It had been accurately described on the listing (this didn’t surprise me since the seller had lots of great ratings) so there weren’t any surprises, but it was nice to look it over and feel confident—I was able to check things like even tire wear, look for any engine compartment leaks, smell the interior, that kind of thing.

    I came home, studied the Blue Book values more carefully, and talked to Daniel some more. We decided to bid on it, and set our maximum bid at about $800 under Blue Book (we wanted a bargain, after all!). I’m not a “professional eBayer” so I didn’t attempt to do any bidding tricks, like waiting until the last minute; I just put the max bid in and let it go.

    It’s kind of odd to sit and think, “I might be buying a truck today.” But when the auction ended, we had won it for about $200 under our maximum bid (sales tax came to just about $200, though). We started the transfer of the savings money from HSBC, went down to the dealership, signed all the papers, wrote them a check (that was convenient, since most private party sellers want cash—a little tricky since all of our bank accounts are with Internet banks and we usually keep the maximum daily ATM withdrawal limit low for security), and drove home with our new truck.

    Could we have gotten a better deal by scouring the local papers and looking at a bunch of vehicles over the course of several months? I’m sure we could have. But this was definitely a case of a “convenient bargain.” The shopping process took a grand total of four hours, most of them passive, and we got a good vehicle for less than it is worth.

    Like everything else, you have to weigh your priorities: are you more interested in spending the time to save the money? Or spending the money to save the time? We felt like this was a great compromise between the two, and I’ll be recommending the MotorMapUSA.com service to anyone who’s car shopping.