Credit Card-Toting Kids: Smart Money Managers or Future Spendthrifts?
Posted July 28th, 2009 by Carolyn Joy Villanueva · 1 commentTagged budgeting, debt, parenting
A credit card and your teen may sound like a lethal combination. In fact, if you’re also a ‘recovering’ credit card user yourself trying to pay off a substantial credit card debt, you wouldn’t want your own children to touch that plastic card with a ten feet pole, lest they end up making the same mistakes. But before putting your foot down on this one, ask yourself first:
“What harm can having a credit card possibly do to my teen?“
Plenty, as it turns out — most of us who have had less-than-pleasant experiences with credit cards will probably answer. But then again, we didn’t have the privilege of hindsight and guidance before that our kids do now. If handled well enough, we can actually use this exercise to teach our kids some pretty solid lessons on handling credit wisely rather than leading them down to the path of shopping wonderland.
The first issue of course, is deciding the best time to let your child use a credit card. I believe letting your teen have a taste of dealing with credit while still in high school is most ideal. Kids in this age are old enough to understand the basics of handling money and budgeting, while still young enough to appreciate your guidance and not rebel from it. Or at least most of them would, I hope.
Fortunately for parents, the range of options for kid or teen-appropriate credit cards is varied what with the plastic-crazy world we now live in. One of your best alternatives could be getting a pre-paid credit card . This way, you have a modern way of handing out allowance every week, without giving him the ability or temptation to go off the debt deep end.
Prepaid credit cards work in much the same way as retail gift cards but are more universally accepted as your kids can use them not just in a single issuing store but anywhere Visa or Mastercard is accepted. The best thing about prepaid cards as compared to regular ones is the absence of fees and late payment charges.
Eventually, you can move on to making your child an extension of your own card, or get him his own regular credit card starting with a low credit limit. For instance, a gas card is a practical option once your teen starts to enjoy driving privileges. At this point, he is well old enough for you to see that with his needs, pocket change allowance just won’t do anymore.
If I seem to lean towards letting young people have their lessons on credit early on in life, it may be because I haven’t had the chance to do it myself and I could have avoided some painful lessons along the way knowing what I do now.
It doesn’t mean though that I’m turning a blind eye and deaf ear to the pitfalls of credit that our children could come to, the most obvious of which is:
This plan could backfire.
If left to their own devices with credit cards, kids can learn a very addictive habit. We ourselves know how easy spending beyond one’s means can be for as long as we have that Mastercard logo in our wallets.
I still say though, the risks far outweigh the benefits when it comes to giving one’s kids a preview of the travails of the adult life. As long as we keep the rules clear, help them identify which goes into what category, i.e. needs vs. wants, teach them how to track purchases (oh, and don’t forget to monitor his transactions yourself), and share with them the mistakes you’ve made yourself, you just might end up succeeding.
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